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Can you maintain a friendship with your exes?



Howdy beautiful people! I hope each one of you are doing well. I am doing good for the most part, just trying to enjoy what seems to be the weirdest summer ever hehe So I got a question for you guys!

Do you keep a friendship with your exes?

I’m having a hard time wondering why so many people on social media post things like “I hate my ex”, “I wish he’d disappear”, “he can go to hell” etc… I mean, what happened that suddenly, the person you once loved is the person you hate the most? I guess I might be different because I have relationships with all my exes. 2 of my exes are even my best friends. Yup, I got 2 besties and they happen to be past lovers.

My first boyfriend cheated on me, and after 7 years of being together, we broke up but I didn’t wish him dead. I was sad of course but we talked about it and we figured out what went wrong and we both worked on being friends instead, he’s now Best friend #1. As for #2, I only dated him for a while until we figured out that we should be friends instead of boyfriends. Things happen and nowadays, it’s even harder to be in a relationship because of all those “dating” apps. This is why I don’t date often. I’m very selective and I don’t want to jump into anything with anybody. No! I want to date someone whom I can be friend with first. If I find a guy who is fun and I like being around him. Who is also a good-hearted person who likes ALL my friends, my family, my pets. Someone whom I can talk with and have great conversations about anything. A guy who understands me and doesn’t judge me, then, and only then, I will ask him if he wants to date. Like I said, things happen in life, human nature happens. Nobody is perfect and for me, it’s important to let good people in my life because I know that if we ever break up, we’d have the tools to remain in each other’s lives. Who wants to invest months, years with someone just to hate that person once you break up. Isn’t it a waste of everything?

I don’t want to preach. To each his own, but that’s my blog so I can say whatever I want šŸ™‚ Maybe people go too fast in the dating process. Maybe they should take their time and learn to know that person before jumping into a relationship and wish him to jump off a cliff as soon as something goes wrong. Just sayin’ šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø

PS: My penis loved the camera today šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£šŸ˜‚



  1. Michael

    August 18, 2020 at 8:42 pm

    It sure does. Iā€™m friends with my exā€™s. Not best but still friends.

  2. Shea Sisk

    August 18, 2020 at 9:46 pm

    I agree. I am friends with all my exes after a certain amount of time passes. I don’t hold grudges.

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